Having a relationship at the same time you need to focus on your study? Think twice. I started to realise this kind of thing during my final semester at MARA College Banting doing IB Diploma. Having a commitment towards a girl at this age is quite troublesome. Plus my mother extremely disagrees of me having a girl before I start to have my own income. I used to date few girls back then and the experience teaches me the best way to live life. The feeling of love that they felt makes them afraid to lose you even your loyalty level is heavens (maybe for some of them I’m not loyal enough). What will they do? I was held in ‘custody’ as I was not able to go out with or to contact other girls even of my friends. Try to imagine if you need to spend time to keep in touch with them and if you don’t, sulking will come right on your way.
The demand to fulfil the love needs keep increasing day by day and it’s getting harder to do that. Finally I made my decision to live on my own. Without any guilt towards my mother and any girl I went out with my friends freely. I enjoyed my days of being single. But the feeling of happiness doesn’t last long. I eventually come to a very boring ending where my Maxis airtime has not being used even 1 cent. There’s nobody for me to talk to and once again boredom step into my door. I felt very empty inside as no one really cares for your life (family is an exception). I started to miss my days having a girl. After sometimes I think and think until suddenly a thought flashed in my mind. Why don’t I look for a best friend? She won’t sulk if rarely keep in touch as my life is getting busy. She won’t be mad if I go out with others. She will understand me and pamper me. The most important thing is you’ll have someone to share your life with.
I know some of you wouldn’t be agree with my way of thinking but this suit me the best. For me a best friend’s love is greater compared to girlfriend’s one. It last longer and getting easier as the relation goes on. Anyway, it’s just my opinion though.